
Challenges
May 30, 2007 on 5:29 pm | In Business Motivations | 1 CommentWhen asked, “How do you develop mental toughness in life?”, my response might sound negative at first when I answer, “Always be prepared for a surprise. The surprise might be a negative surprise. Something is going to happen throughout your day. You may have no one home all day, or you may have your cousin tell you you’re crazy! Regardless, something is going to happen. The key, is your ability not to take mole hills and look at them as mountains.”
Problems are a normal part of change. Things are changing so rapidly that there are going to be problems you encounter. You must look at failure as an event, not as a person. Maybe I’ve had a failure or a temporary inconvenience, but I’m not a failure. The idea is to turn the stumbling block into a stepping stone, and step on it instead of stumbling over it.
So learn to look at failure as the fertilizer of success. Fertilizer stinks, it smells. You see that guy putting it on his lawn and you say, “Wow, that guy fertilized his lawn, he’s trying to make it better.” You fertilize your mistakes, you don’t wallow in them, lay in them, or roll in them. You pick yourself up from your mistakes, learn from them and try not to repeat them. Look at it as a temporary inconvenience, as a detour - a detour in life - not as a failure.
These challenges are opportunities that we have got to go through to strengthen us into the people we need to be and grow larger in our own awareness. We are going to grow to our success through these challenges and be a light that guides others through the same adversities they face in their lives.
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